Comment by Mr Greed on When the Villainess meets the Crazy Heroine - Chapter 31

@Mr Greed The arrogance and confidence needed to think the opinion of a man on how much "cooler" bisexuality is than being a lesbian, matters 😭 Of course you prefer bi women, you don't want to be left out.  Reflect, change, and grow as a person.

@Su Da Ji What are you even talking about?? Are you hating bisexuality now wow grow up... I have nothing against lesbians I have two very good friends that are lesbians and I kinda doubt you do with that attitude.
And for your information I am single straight man with zero intentions of ever getting a partner however that does not mean I don't enjoy looking at the gender I prefer and if my sister was lesbian we would still have done the same but yea she has a boyfriend but that makes her less cool right? 
The amount people that have judged her for her bisexuality is shocking really but I am proud to have her as my sister that is not afraid to say what she likes and don't.
If my brother was homosexual I would have a harder time doing the same since I feel nothing for the same gender, if that is hard for you to understand then I have nothing more to say to you.
Hope you have good day and please don't ruin others, thank you.

@Mr Greed I appreciate the essay! I'm sorry your reading comprehension inferred that anyone was speaking down on biphobia, and instead acknowledging that biphobia is more well-received under a hetero-patriarchy than being a lesbian! I'm not saying I don't care about your sisters experience, but at the end of the day she's capable of genuinely holding love for and starting a family with a man, something that lesbians can't, which exclides us categorically from the minor protections of being part of the current hetero patriarchal system. Again, since I know reading comprehension isn't your strong suit, I'll reiterate that I have nothing but love for all my sapphic sisters, but the reality, the systemic reality，is that your relationship to qu*** women, as a man, is irrelevant. Your opinion on qu*** women is irrelevant. Your opinion on lesbianism or female bisexuality is irrelevant. Idk why this is offensive to you? 

I'm happy your life has been systemically privileged enough to ignore the plight of lesbians, but I hope for the sake of your sister and any qu*** women unfortunate enough to interact with you, that you do better 🫶🏼

Yeah it's pretty cool:D

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@Su Da Ji Hey, just wanted to say that I think you misunderstood the OP's comment. I believe what they meant with bisexuality being cooler was that it was cooler than being heterosexual like they are. I understand how you might have thought that they were saying it was cooler than lesbianism though as their language is not very clear in their meaning. Overall, I believe that your rightful anger to system that puts white cis heterosexual men at the top is wrongfully pointed at the OP. Take it from a fellow qu*** (lol), I believe that this person is well meaning and that this whole comment chain could have been avoided by simply asking them to clarify what they meant by "bisexuality being cooler". Anyway, love you queenie, keep fighting <3.

@Mr Greed Please don't talk about your family matters on a public site- besides as a bisexual myself- saying that rocking both ways is cooler is straight up cringe and pathetic. It's basically the same as saying being 'straight' is cooler than being gay or being 'gay' is cooler than being 'straight' either way it's cringe af. 

@Tigerlily person who commented on op wasn't really saying it's wrong of them to say that being bi is cooler than lesbian, but that their opinion in general is unneeded as a person who is not apart of the qu*** minority. Having to include your outside opinion simply because you want to when it's completely unrelated to you and your experiences simply because you feel like it is insensitive. It's even more so unnecessary for a straight man to comment on bisexual women or lesbians. It's like a straight man telling you what a lesbian should be defined by in a more serious case, it's not something they are able to judge or really have an opinion on. They're also pointing out the fact that straight men will find any way to include themselves in spaces where they are not wanted if it feels like something is not centered around themselves. Because of an already patriarchal society, they are used to always being included or the center of attention, which is why lesbians who aren't male centered will get all the more sh** for it. Men who see two lesbians and immediately comment on it being hot? It's because they imagine it as something done for them rather than an act between two people for themselves