@Kelly
Just let life happen, it's okay to just not know. If you don't feel the butterfly feeling, then no need to force yourself. Just lean back and live your life.
if the butterfly feeling comes one day, then cool, if not, then cool too. Maybe you just need more time to get to know a person, or maybe you just don't try with the right ones, maybe you just don't love. All of the above are okay and totally valid, so take a deep breather and look at what you want. Do you want a lover? Or do you just want to fit in?
Because from my experience, if you can't love, then you wouldn't really care. But if you really crave a relationship, then you just haven't figured out your type yet.
But in the ends it's you who knows bes
don’t insult me, I’ll come.