That's a lot of tone policing right there. If you understand my point, then it's up to you to be mature enough to control your emotions and reactions. That's partly how you "adult".
And Kiki, once again you are talking about of both sides of the conversation here. Your position on anything is so fluid that it's impossible to know what you actually think. Do you or don't you think that men and women have duties or not? If yes, then please list the duties that you think they have. You complain that I don't know what your position is while also making it impossible to know what your position is so I'm forced to estimate it based upon what I've read so far. If you aren't planning to make a solid position than you can't complain when I give you the benefit of the doubt and assume the most reasonable position out of the many options (even if that position is very bad overall).
Regarding the previous discussion, I'm not making things up here. Men and women have different things that they want from the other gender. Generally speaking, it's usually only woman who don't know this as they tend to be too blinded by the fact that they are the biological "sexual selectors" and are being chased during their early years that they don't even realize that men want different things than they want. On the other hand, since men aren't the sexual sectors, they generally figure out what women want early on and spend the better part of their life appealing to the things that women desire in order to raise their own sexual market value (SMV). Although what people want does somewhat vary from person to person, biologically men still want certain things and women want other things. This doesn't make either of these people the "ideal" of their gender, but it does make them "ideal" to the majority of the opposite sex in the sexual marketplace.
