@captain save a hoe Learn to read between the lines. They might have had happy moments, but this was quite obviously a very unhealthy relationship almost from the beginning. It didn't start with the cheating. He gave up everything for Aldolph. His education, his dreams, his family, his love of animals, he was isolated, had no friends, forced to stay home and play submissive housewife, not allowed to travel, worked himself sick to help his company, smoked and drunk until he threw up blood, he barely had any money (as the dr nicely pointed out) or posessions at the end of his life after 15 years of servitude etc. and Lewis indicated that he always had a bad temper not just at the end. And ra** and abuse is not a mistake, it's a crime and he should be in jail for it. A mistake is something unintentional. He didn't ra** him or beat up Troy accidentally.