Comment by llazer on If It's Not Fate, Then What Is It? - Chapter 11

Comment on ChapterIf It's Not Fate, Then What Is It? - Chapter 11
llazer
llazerMember·2 years ago(edited)
Ch. 11
i dont understand why he keeps treating dojin like he's the bad guy lmao i do understand he is in pain from the traumatic things that happened to him but hello? why is he pushing all the blame to dojin when he is as responsible as dojin is in what happened to the both of them? he initiated it not once but twice! dojin is trying to solve the problem but he keeps running away. at this point he's just being a coward. starting something but not taking responsibility for it.
2D-sama tachi, daisuki desu dakara kekkonshite kudasai (⁠ ⁠ꈍ⁠ᴗ⁠ꈍ⁠)

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@llazer

...you really has no problem with the fact he just ignores everytime he got a "no' from that poor boy???

He doesn't push anythong onto Dojun, its literally the oppoosite...

@Nickname Hello too. You should read the previous2 chapters carefully. When the Omega said to the Alpha to marry himself, that's when Dojin decided he will try his best to make the Omega accept him. It's not like he put knife on the Omega's chin when he's asking for marriage.
Plus, the Omega don't want to tell the Alpha why the he** he don't want to get married with Dojin ! Gosh, I know he's traumatized, but, he should make a very clear clarification why he don't want to get married (for now). Don't you know what's communication ? You want to blame the Alpha ? He**, no ! Both of them were wrong in their own ways ! The Omega need to tell Dojin now what's his problem because they have became mate now ! Do you know how important is mate bonding in Omegaverse ???
@BruhGotSomeNerves

He** no!! You DON'T owe a stranger an explanation why you don't want anything from them! NEVER! Just think about it for 2 seconds, and dare to tell met that it's normal that you have to explain your actions and decisions to any random people... You absolutely have the right to decide what you want, what to do, and what you share about yourself, and nobody, i repeat, NOBODY ha the right to force you open up about yourself to them! Not in seven he**!

What dojun have done here is normally causes people to request a restraining order. You shouldn't turn a blind eye just because it's a BL and we all know it will get a happy eding.

And yes, I know what is communication, but it seems you need your memory refresh a bit - It starts with understand the difference between two fuk*** word "yes" and "no"!! Thats the starting point of communcation. Even in omegaverse.

beefyqueefs
beefyqueefsMember·2 years ago(edited)
@Nickname they're both the issue. ML is overbearing and constantly pushing the mc into a relationship bc he has barely any control over his instincts. He refuses to back down from marriage and completely disregards MC's objections (MC has already forsaken his agency as an Omega bc of his ex so ML insisting marriage only further reinforces his perception of all alphas being the same as his ex and, subsequently, the dynamics of their relationship). That being said MC is so inconsistent b/w his thoughts/actions and refuses to engage his problems and just hopes for the best or assumes it'll work itself out (like not immediately going to the hospital or following through w his resignation). 100% he has no obligation to disclose his trauma to a near stranger but, in refusing to do so, he denies the oportunity to take steps towards a resolution. Clearly ML struggles with boundaries and is genuinely seeking reason, but MC is either unable or unwilling to provide context behind his actions which only leads to further confusion and the same unreasonable demands from ML 
The easiest solution would be to leave, explainations to ML's parents and rental agreement be damned.
The most reasonable solution would be to go to a GOT DA** HOSPITAL ALREADY, take an inhibitor and discuss the problem with ML in a non-private setting (have his bff present/moderating)
@beefyqueefs It's NOT overract, it's the right reaction, for g** sake...