@didi
Are you serious? TJ thinks he was taking advantage of Ian's guilt, but in fact, he didn't force it on him or blame him for anything. TJ was the only one who stayed by his side, helped him overcome his drug addiction, and protected him all this time, just like Ian said.
And how is Jo better? He started criticizing Ian's lifestyle from the very beginning, manipulated the situation with broken fingers, intentionally prevented him from meeting TJ, raped him when he lost consciousness, marked him as his own without getting his consent, lied to him that nothing happened.