Comment by Fae on Lost in the Cloud - Chapter 19

@Fae being a victim of trauma does not excuse shi*** behavior towards other people. That's such a fuc**** cop out. Almost everyone has trauma. If we all acted like this because of it, there wouldn't be any kindness in the world.

@Zombi what the f***? Is that? Wt* wth dude? Your mindset is sh*t, i bet you never really know what's trauma feels like... Gosh.. Don't you even understand how cirrus acted? Gosh you obviously don't know about that kind of issue...

@Sunbae Cirrus definitely has trauma, but as someone who's experienced what he has ten fold, his actions up until this point are not excusable. Explainable? Yes. But not excusable.

@Zombi not everyone is the same, you might have dealt with trauma and coped with it but others cant, ur not the only person in the world.
If everyone couldve dealth their trauma and prblems stuff like psychiatric hospitalds wouldnt have existed, im not sayding just cuz you have trauma u can be shi*** but sometimes its not their fault and just needs to talk it out. yes everyone has trauma but not the same trauma and they certainly dnt have the same mind so everyone copes differently to their trauma.

@Fae I do agree with everything you said. But I'm still a firm believer that just because there's an explanation for his actions doesn't excuse him from accountability.

@Zombi ty for agreeing but I'm still firm on what I believe, cirrus has bpd, a really bad mental disorder and its not smth that can be just gotten rid of, like how someone gets schizophrenia, there is no way to get rid of it just a way to wear it off and even with depression, it takes years and years to get rid of, bpd isn't smth that is forced but because of the ur surroundings u were born in, his past was really sad and it played a big role on how he grew up. A kid would break down if he heard his dad saying his kid shoudkve died instead.

@Fae I'm just seeing this comment so sorry for not addressing it in the other one, but even people with BPD say that their actions aren't just excusable bc of their disorder. They still have to take accountability. Me listening to people with BPD is actually where I got the whole mindset of "just bc there's an explanation doesn't mean that it's just excused" I understand why he said what he said. But that doesn't just make it okay same way *SPOILER FOR LIKE CHAPTER 120ish* what Skylar said to Cirrus recently wasn't okay. They both had their reasons. But words have consequences and actions have consequences. When you unfairly say or do something that hurts someone you love, no matter the reason, it is up to you to fix and make up for it.

@Zombi i see your point but honeslty imma say this again, not everyone has the same mind, some people with bpd might beleieve that but others cant control how they act, if they did then omg thats a big miracle. cirrus and skylar are just teenagers. Cirrus never got the love he deserved, its so explainable he acted like that and same thing with skylar. This is honeslty just a big reality, many people in real life dont know communication and espeically as teenagers with so much trauma its very much explainable. This manhwa is a very realistic life story about teenagers, its very much common more then people think, yes what they both said to eachother was wrong but thats just reality and to say one of them is an ass**** is just not it because while they are both at the wrong at the end of the day they are still kids who have so much more to learn.