@Fae I'm just seeing this comment so sorry for not addressing it in the other one, but even people with BPD say that their actions aren't just excusable bc of their disorder. They still have to take accountability. Me listening to people with BPD is actually where I got the whole mindset of "just bc there's an explanation doesn't mean that it's just excused" I understand why he said what he said. But that doesn't just make it okay same way *SPOILER FOR LIKE CHAPTER 120ish* what Skylar said to Cirrus recently wasn't okay. They both had their reasons. But words have consequences and actions have consequences. When you unfairly say or do something that hurts someone you love, no matter the reason, it is up to you to fix and make up for it.
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@Zombi i see your point but honeslty imma say this again, not everyone has the same mind, some people with bpd might beleieve that but others cant control how they act, if they did then omg thats a big miracle. cirrus and skylar are just teenagers. Cirrus never got the love he deserved, its so explainable he acted like that and same thing with skylar. This is honeslty just a big reality, many people in real life dont know communication and espeically as teenagers with so much trauma its very much explainable. This manhwa is a very realistic life story about teenagers, its very much common more then people think, yes what they both said to eachother was wrong but thats just reality and to say one of them is an ass**** is just not it because while they are both at the wrong at the end of the day they are still kids who have so much more to learn.