@Gillji Thank you so much for pointing this out! 'Cause really, with all this talk about coming-out or not, people seem to miss what it's all about actually. Here I refer to their phone call when Garam said it's not normal what Jaehyuk's been doing for him, among other things - cutting contact with his parents. Garam doesn't grasp what being in a relationship means: if Jaehyuk's parents reaction makes Garam miserable, it's natural for Jaehyuk to avoid this "stress factor", 'cause he cares about his boyfriend. In this regard Jaehyuk is more mature and understands better how a relationship functions. Garam, on the other hand, seems to fix on himself entirely instead. Not ready for a relationship, then don't start one.