Comment by Sour Cinnamin on Crossing the Line - Chapter 118

@Sour Cinnamin fears can be overcome when one wants to overcome it themselves

@Gillji yea but it gets to a point where it starts affecting their partner who has waited for a long time. Plus he's proven how much he'd do for Garam and that

there's no need for him to feel that way. Sure, Jaehyun is also an ass**** and blocking out everything in his life except Garam isn't healthy, but neither side are correct or right anyway. They both have equal problems that they need to solve. Haram shouldn't be so selfish and Jaehyun shldnt be so pressing.

@Gillji In case of Garam it would take like forever, then

@I ONLY BARK FOR LEE HYOIN Not sure if that was me for angry-face click - wasn't intentional, in any case.

@Sour Cinnamin I think the same way. To wait for Garam to change by himself his mindset about being gay will take an eternity. And: success not guaranteed.

@Tetiana that's what I am saying 
It seems like he do not want to change air try to change and only want other to change even though jaehyuk has changed a loooot for him

@Gillji Thank you so much for pointing this out! 'Cause really, with all this talk about coming-out or not, people seem to miss what it's all about actually. Here I refer to their phone call when Garam said it's not normal what Jaehyuk's been doing for him, among other things - cutting contact with his parents. Garam doesn't grasp what being in a relationship means: if Jaehyuk's parents reaction makes Garam miserable, it's natural for Jaehyuk to avoid this "stress factor", 'cause he cares about his boyfriend. In this regard Jaehyuk is more mature and understands better how a relationship functions. Garam, on the other hand, seems to fix on himself entirely instead. Not ready for a relationship, then don't start one.

@Tetiana he acts like he has seen it all and done it all.. but in reality he is still a baby chick who has only one track mind