I can understand where hyunjae is coming from. I have a friend and I don't know if I like her. I'm stuck. I'm her only friend she feels closest too and she has a boyfriend who doesn't treat her right I feel, maybe its me being jealous. But she's still with him because she loves him too much. Every time she's hurt she comes to me and I give her my love and affection to make her feel better. But then she just comes running back to him like nothing happened. Of course she says she's thankful to have me and how much she loves me for being her bestie. I just don't know what I feel. I'm glad I'm her support and she trusts me enough to spill everything she has to say to me but I feel like her second option all the time. I know she should have her lover first but I just don't know I just wish I was her priority first too. I'm hopeless and don't know why I think this way, I'm confused. I feel bad for thinking this way because I'm supposed to be her friend. I just wish she was just happy without him and put others first instead of him. I know this is a weird place to put my heart into but I know no one would see this I just want to pour some things out. There's more to say I just don't know how to put it into words.
Comment by AgeA on Hardcore Vanilla - Chapter 8
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hey man. I feel you, I've been in an identical situation. Yes, we're the second options. I've come to realise that we just must give up. It's a sad realisation but.. it is what it is
get over yourself. she doesn't want you.
just because you give her your so called "love and affection" doesn't mean she has to drop everything for you and be with you, and if you expect her to just because you did something a friend does, then you must not actually care about her at all. you're not anything special, you're just a person with ulterior motives, she's better off not ever being with you for that alone. she deserves someone who actually cares about her. because if you actually cared about her, then you would be happy for her regardless of what you think you deserve, and would think to consider what she wants, rather than thinking about yourself and what you want. you're just a selfish, self-proclaimed "nice guy" lol
Bro just go
i think you knew it bro
this is sad but it's what it is
Don't try be with people who don't want or and put others first. Also your wasting valuable time go make money get a happy life. There's 3 billion or more and High chance guaranteed you'll find someone just don't be picky if you want even more increased chances . Just forget about her it'll help her and you . Maybe she'll miss you and learn to appreciate others and find someone good or not. At the end it doesn't matter just be happy give up don't force and make someone else feel bad or give people a chance to use an emotional tampon
I know you are all serious here but I can't help but sing 🎤🎶
"I know that I can treat you better than he can..."
'Kay, I'm done. Toodles🫣🫶