@(๑˃ᴗ˂)ﻭ Niko Bruh if I if they didn't react a certain way under another post of mine with me having a convo with a person whom was talking abt a similar topic as to not give a statement abt stereotyping or putting straight stereotypes on gay ppl like myself , then yeah i wouldn't have though their comment was directed at me. Plus I'm not dumb. Even what u said such as you, yours vs they these, doesn't necessarily mean they are talking abt me. Why would I be dumb enough to think it's not when it's only common sense bro. if u simply look at the comments under your comment you'll see that I was the only one talking to u under this specific main comment u made, & while it's obviously fine if other wish to comment towards u as well, their comment was clear Directed towards me as they said "They really put their whole foot into these comments" if anyone uses their brain & comments sense they'll know that I did give a lot of comments mentioning and explaining "my own sexuality & the gay community especially talking abt how gay ppl are stereotyped in a straight way & terms like top/bottom ppl often put their straight mindset on them on especially how if a non gay man says their not into short/big bottoms/tops that's understandable cause it's their own type to do with their own sexuality, same go for lesbians towards women, but if a straight person says they don't like a certain top that is a whole different statement that has nothing to do with them. And the (wording) can come across differently, from saying it in such a way that (I don't like reading/watching /prefer to read/watch whatever certain type dynamic they like) that's very different from a straight person or a non gay man or whatever & that person generalizes their statement abt tops/bottoms." I was explaining all that
@(๑˃ᴗ˂)ﻭ Niko explaining all that not only to you but also so others can see my comments if they choose or read or not. Doesn't matter. The point is that I did put a lot of comments cause explaining takes time and plus I don't know how to explain things shortly, and I was the only one that commented under your post, plus their name did pop up in my notifications before in previous chapters before they commented under this post, so yes is was directed at me. i won't assume out of the blue unless I have reasons to. and only because they made a comment talking abt me instead of telling me themself which is fine on their part if they wanna. If I see something that's directed towards me even if it's indirectly. I do not hold water in my mouth I will say whatever I have to say. Same goes for speaking up or talking or explaining abt gay/qu*** matters. Some other qu*** ppl do and some don't. Even if it doesn't seem like a big issue and it's not hurting others but it's just a weird comment I'm the type to still point out those weird comments or others straight stereotypical mindset as I can when it's literally abt myself. I'm not angry I'm just tryna say and have a conversation and if anyone doesn't want to then that's fine too and I wish you a good day/night. :
oh and I'm also not mad or upset with u btw. If my tone seems that way it's because text & even in person I have trouble delivering tone .... but just wanted to specifiy to u that I'm not mad at u, I just wanted to point out and mention why it is and how I know that their comment was directed at me which I don't mind either way, and why I commented towards them. So when u mentioned what u did I just also mentioned how I knew it was abt me as they were already on a previous post ... but I explained all that already. im saying all this so that yk that my message wasn't out of anger or annoyance abt u but simply out of why I thought what I did.
