Comment by alexabeaux on MasterOft

@MasterOft Before learning about TJ, Jo wasn't so ambitious to win Ian over. Once he found out, he became even more ambitious and childishly revealed his true intentions. He thought he could erase their 20-year history with a few moves. In one episode, Ian and TJ even had a fight; TJ left the house, and Ian chased after him, crying. TJ was actually waiting around the corner, but Ian didn't know this because Jo intercepted him. Jo knew that TJ was waiting for him and that Ian was chasing after him, crying. Jo used the excuse of not allowing them to see each other, saying, "If you love Ian, you'll leave him alone," but in reality, Ian couldn't get TJ out of his mind from the beginning. Ian was always worse off without TJ, and Jo couldn't understand this. He always thought TJ was forcing Ian into his life. But no matter how much he gave Ian freedom, Ian always found TJ. They were like magnets; they had each other etched into their souls, seeing each other wherever they looked. Jo's childish ambition delayed their meeting that day; if they had talked that day, all the problems would have been solved. The biggest problem for this couple was that they hadn't spoken or communicated for 20 years. Finally, they overcame that obstacle and reunited. Sometimes it takes 20 years to learn certain lessons.