as a gay man
yeah women talking abt gay people like this is genuinely offensive and disgusting. its sexualising us as well and for women to be out here defending themselves with "no we just support you! now who's the top..?" its fvcking disgusting to be constantly sexualised.. especially by women. gay men aren't a fantasy or an extraordinary thing that you can be like "omg look those two guys look so cute together, obviously the bigger / taller one is the top!!" like.. welcome to stereotype community? not to mention yall gave yourselves a name "fujoshis" as if you're proud of it like
if i, as a gay man, saw two women hanging out together and said "hey i bet the one with the bigger ti** is the top, they look so cute together" clearly, i'd be sexualising them and crossing a line. so why is it acceptable for women to do it to gay men? oh wait. its not. its just normalised.
stop. its disgusting and you're hurting the community by doing it.
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I was really creeper out by it, who the fu** even talks so casually about it? Weird af..
Exactly! It is so nasty especially when women do it with real people.
right !! and some people act like im saying women shouldn't read this kind of stuff at all. people can read whatever they want, its a different story when they're literally sexually harrassing peple.
and sexual harrassment, by definition, is the unwarranted / non-consensual sexual remarks or ideas made towards another person. and seeing as top is a gay s** term, thats sexual harrassment, which is really gross... specially for everone defending jinju and real-life fujoshis
idc if you think 2 boys look cute together, its a different story when you're shipping them without knowing their sexuality or if they'd be comfortable with it, hardly knowing them, and speculating on their s** life!
Bro no one is gonna read that whole paragraph never mind, that is a whole book you typed
Ayoo thats what i was bouta say man. Like, you are NOT being supportive. I would rather be called a slur than to be treated like that