right !! and some people act like im saying women shouldn't read this kind of stuff at all. people can read whatever they want, its a different story when they're literally sexually harrassing peple.
and sexual harrassment, by definition, is the unwarranted / non-consensual sexual remarks or ideas made towards another person. and seeing as top is a gay s** term, thats sexual harrassment, which is really gross... specially for everone defending jinju and real-life fujoshis
idc if you think 2 boys look cute together, its a different story when you're shipping them without knowing their sexuality or if they'd be comfortable with it, hardly knowing them, and speculating on their s** life!