@EF i Thats wrong I understand not making fun or teasing Jaekyung for his past but claiming that Dan would be the same if things happened in his childhood is wrong. Have you experienced poverty? Dan had a good upbringing but even then that doesn't mean that because he had a good upbringing he SHOULD act kindly. Dan acts kindly because HE is kind. Although I understand what you meant by how upbringing or mental health for children is important there are plenty of adults who had trauma in their childhood, and still managed to act correctly or kindly towards others.Regardless of what you think of Jakeyung and his past trauma his behavior can't be excused. Although Jakeyung actions could be justified in his eyes, they're still not excusable
@Mustard I disagree. The enviroment where you grow up is important growing up. If Dan was surroanded with bullies and people treating him badly, he wouldn't be kind now. He is kind cause that's how he is, yes, but also cause the enviroment where he grew up allowed him to stay kind. He was poor, but not in extreme poverty, his grandma allowed him to grow up with everything he needed, so you can't say "poverty" marked him. After he grew up he started to feel the weight of money and had to work a lot to support his grandma and her treatments. But no, Dan being poor didn't bring any trauma to him, cause he wasn't in extreme poverty.