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$Fluffy\(* ^ *)/$

Hey, so I really like this friend of mine(in a friendly way for now..) and I give the most priority to her, BUT- She is crazy for another friend like she alwayssss talks abt her and sh***.. I told her abt my birthday a few days ahead and she forgot abt it[poco:0]. Well, her birthday is coming around and I've bought her a really cute gift that she wanted... poco sticker

. But the thing is I feel really unappreciated when I am always by her side no matter what but she always chooses her other friend over me poco sticker

without batting a eye. I have chosen to detach myself then again, I can't immediately do that either.. anime sticker

. I'm in a dilema right now as I know that my mental health will sink if I continue like this but then again there's something that stops me aswell..please give me some advice..

I'm a girl⛄/ Ik ben een meisje😊
17 yrs old💫

7 Replies

just addictedMember·2 years ago

@Fluffy\(* ^ *)/

If you really want to detach yourself then be patient and control yourself you can slowly little by little detach since suddenly detaching might hurt her and if you don't want to detach, just be careful and work with your feeling.

The tips I will like to give you is that: Don't let anyone make you feel unappreciated, its not healthy and also don't let any person make your day a "bad day".

arfMember·2 years ago

@Fluffy\(* ^ *)/ i think you dont have to completely detach but put a gap/distance between the friend and you so it isnt such a big blow to your mental health. perhaps you want to try talking to the friend bout this problem? i mean, she may have her own reason for being closer to this friend. sorry of this isnt explained clearly or is a real shi*** adivce.

but, hope itll be better soon!

just addictedMember·2 years ago

@arf Yes she doesn't have to be completely detached and just a gap is good. but I don't think talking to her friend about the problem is a good choice, It will be awkward and the friendship might disappear and also, she can't just go to her and say 'look at me more' since that friend also has her own choice and feeling. Just saying srry and no offense.

arfMember·2 years ago

@just addicted good point. btw no offense taken!

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Fluffy\(* ^ *)/Member·2 years ago

@just addicted Thank you❤️, I'm working towards that😌

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Fluffy\(* ^ *)/Member·2 years ago

@arf Well, If it does get that bad, I will talk to her abt it but until then let's hope for better😺

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Fluffy\(* ^ *)/Member·2 years ago

@just addicted That's a good perspective. I will try to put in a gap😫

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