Comment by Ivan on When Life Gives You Tomatoes - Chapter 10

@Ivan

that was me and I stick by it. Don't be shy, you can @ me. Some of you are unattractive and it should cause you never experience a guy like MC be nice to you just because he wants to sleep with you.

MC did not love ML because he did not know ML. you cannot love someone you do not know. he had a fantasy of ML in his head and never bother to get to know him as a person. That's not love that's fetishization. 

OK, so let's talk about the s** scene. First of all ML thought MC was a hooker because he he thought his mom had hired a hooker. But secondly, MC was perfectly comfortable having s** with ML when he thought he was going to be the top. I repeat. MC was perfectly fine having s** with someone who was helpless when he thought that person was an omega. When he realized ML was not an omega and realized he would be the bottom that's when he freaked out

@Nyanyala yo chill i didnt even mention u(i jst said a person) or reply to ur comment i jst wanted to share my opinion cuz ppl can choose what to feel. U can see i wasnt bashing u for ur opinion u can hate him. Im not telling u to not stick to ur opinion alr? Im also sticking to mine. Also the ml knew it was the mc he pretended not to know mc u can see when they were talking with his dad

Also u calling me 'unattractive' jst bc of my opinion shows how u are. I did not even insult you i jst referred to ur comment to share my opposite perspective

@Nyanyala The points u wanted to talk abt. Let's not argue.

1) ml knew it was mc u can see when they were talking with ml's father.

2)mc wasnt comfortable, he came because he wanted to help ml and of course he'd freak out from the change and that doesnt give ml the consent, dude mc never wanted to take advantage of ml's helplessness r u on to smth? That incident happened because of pheromones 

2) They were freaking kids why would mc fetishize ml. Also mc tried to get to know ml but ml was distant, mc thought of himself as inferior thats why he didnt get close. Crushes in highschool happen because of looks usually and its not fetishization. When mc was getting to know ml ts happened they also knew each other for like days he cant know everything in days. He can like ml.  

U can see i clearly stated "it must be horrible but that doesnt mean ml can treat mc like a sh**" i was agreeing with you in that part and being respectful. Now if i talk like u did i'd say you're a sh** like the ml thats why you're justifying it.

@Ivan  @Kugiisakii you disliked my comment and you're responding to my first comment and it's clear you didn't have the ba*** to respond to me so you made a seperate comment. And instead of just calling me a piece of sh** you give that passive aggressive comment at the end "that you would if you were like me" you don't have ba*** to say it like me.  It's weak behavior. I can see why you like the MC so much. similar bs.

first, reread my comment when I said helplessness, I said MC THOUGHT ML was helpless until he realized he wasn't. MC was perfectly comfortable having s** with ml when he thought he was needed him. 

but let me be very clear. I am a lot like ML. Im probably worst. 😂 I said it earlier I could sympathize with an ML who experienced guys like MC my entire life. And you're like "they're children." "There's no fetishization." no, they were teenagers when they first met. I was younger than that when I started having experience with creepy losers like MC. And sometimes being mean to them is the only way to get it through. Fetishization isn't a conscious effort that's just the word to describe what how MC views ML because you use the word "love" and there's no love here. I know you know there's no love because you switched from the word love to like in your responses.

 ML should treat MC like sh** because with guys like this, that is the only way you can set a clear boundary. Again you don't seem to understand that if you were nice to guys like this, they will take the slightest more so kindness and cling to you like a leach. Ml does not want that.

as for the unattractive comment, well you didn't deny it. 😂  But if it makes you feel better, I'm referring to everybody in the comments who support MC. It wasn't just you.

@Nyanyala i jst spoke like u spoke to me and look u got hella defensive. I'll accept i wrote love instead of like at first it was a genuine mistake cuz it was a crush so mc liked ml but that doesnt change my point. I literally live in a country where most guys r creep so dont even explain that to me i know what you mean ive exprienced it i still do everyday. Im secure so i didnt comment about attractiveness n bs further if u wanna hear it i'll be clear im very pretty im speaking for the other commenters too u cang call them ugly for having their owm thoughts. Sorry if u exprienced creepy men, i also did but you clearly dont understand what i said, you're tangling ur personal exprience to a literal manhwa and it doesnt even match. There's a dislike button for a reason, u can also dislike my comment i wont attack u like u are. Comparing mc to those types of guys is bs. Lets not argue anymore if u feel hurt by what i said i apologize

If being respectful is bad and weak then be it lmao i jst dont wanna call u a piece of sh** cuz i dont know what you experienced to make comments like this and i genuinely dont want to hurt anyone

@Ivan

   Jfc.  If you experience creepy men and are still defending mc, that's a internal issue I'm not addressing.

 You make a comment, stick by it.  You being "nice" and pretending like youre avoiding conflict is so fake and I'm calling it out. First if you really care, just don't respond. telling me to just dislike your comment and not respond instead of correcting your own behavior is hypocritical af. You do that. just dislike my response and not respond. That's what you told me to do so lead by example.

also your apology is not sincere. What are you even apologizing for again?  Nothing. You're not sorry and let me point something out. You didn't  do anything wrong so there's nothing to apologize for.

you had an opinion. I have an opinion, but your apologizing just to look "nice" is fake af. Just like MC's creep a**. 

being nice does not oblige you to the same behavior especially if that niceness comes with the intent of reciprocity. 

@Nyanyala girly u'll have a problem with whatever i'll say. Anyways have a great day queen 💕

@Ivan if you don't like my comments, you can just dislike it and not respond but that would mean taking your own advice and even you don't want to listen to you 😂