@Shadow laws I understand your frustration but you direct it in the wrong direction. Feminism is not at fault, the system is.
I wonder where are you from, talking about quotas and stuff like that. Sounds very American to me. In the world outside of the west it's still pretty common for women to be treated like a second class, so I can't share your frustration about feminism as a whole. In my country there are no quotas and it is still expected from a woman to work a day job and then come home and clean, cook and take care of the children. Men also work the same tiring day job, but then they usually have a luxury to come home and actually rest, instead of working a second shift at home. And my country is more or less okay. I'm not even talking about places where women can't walk alone, because they would be kidnapped or raped, or can't walk without covering their faces, or can't get a job and have to rely on their husband's income.
I can understand your feelings about modern feminism to some extent. I've seen enough hypocrits who say they are feminists, but then go and do some misogynistic hatefull things to the women they dislike. But in this case you should criticise hypocrisy, not feminism. Till this day the core idea stays the same — equal rights and possibilities.