So guyz I need some advice my boyfriend of five years and I broke up last year in March and ever since we are in no contact zone but if I ever call or text him he replied or call back but he never make efforts from his side now I feel like charity case
Comment by zero two on First of Summers - Chapter 26
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@zero two why don't you do the same why wait on someone whose not making effort for you if it where me I'd move on what the point on waiting on him
@dhghdgf i really want to move on but i keep on circling back that i'm the who ruined it and i may never find someone as good as him
@zero two trust me u will! You should learn to move on. It's good that you've acknowledged that he puts in no effort to maintain this relationship, so let him go. And don't worry about finding someone else at the moment. Work on yourself. The person your truly destined to be with won't come if you are trying to actively search for them or try to scavenge for something that's not there. You'll eventually meet someone, not on your own accord, but because yall are simply meant to be. If you think you've ruined it, you should also move on for his sake. Him going no contact shows he ready to/ already moved on, starting with a blank slate, therefore so should you.
@Kiki sure he is moved on and i will try that too not for him but for myself
@zero two don't try just do it I'm rooting for you
@dhghdgf thank you love
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@Mari Zari I'm so sorry you had to go though that but giving him a three chance why would you give him a three chance
@Mari Zari i'm so sorry that it happened to you hope you are fine now
@dhghdgf sometime we wants to believe someone has changed even though we know it will never. But you know as Dickinson said hope is thing with feathers