chat, i like a boy in my school but we literally never talk, like i thought he was serious and all, but he is so sweet, he is so cute aswell, i wanna talk to him but idk how, and aswell he never talks with girls, he is one year below me tho, altought he is older, aaaaaah idk how to talk to him, im sad, and i think he likes my sister lol, but my sister told me she doesnt like him, he likes some things i like, like we got some things in common, but i thought of following him on insta, but it would be werid to just follow him if he doesnt know me, i have a friend who is his friend, that why i kinda know what he likes and all that, omg im out
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@imout Take the chance or regret not doing it forever
@Lelouch vi Britannia thank you, you are so right, i should stop being a coward and just talk to him
@Lelouch vi Britannia i took that advice once and I regretted it so much 😭 we were friends and talk pretty often and now when i decided to make hints that i like him he distance himself and now we rarely talk 😭😭
@imout start with like simple greetings like hi, hello, goodmorning and stuff
After he is Fully comfortable with that switch
To like 'what's up' and stuff and hope that he reciprocates the greetings
After he is Fully comfortable with that switch
To like 'what's up' and stuff and hope that he reciprocates the greetings
@imout Alright- this is what I did to a guy that I kinda thought looked handsome => put my pencile on his desk -> gave him a nickname stealer ( not mean but playfull) and tease calling him stealer so yeah!
before starting- you gotta look yourself presentable, atleast fix your hair or posture. Make yourself clean and comfortable.
1- i would love to start with a small real compliment: did he do his hair different => compliment, did he wear something nice => compliment,etc. and move on with that small compliment. don't stand there waiting for his reply. move on.
2- ask for favors, not big one but a small easy one, to making him feel helpful. giving him a small favor like " can i have a pencile " " can you hold this for one second?" will make him feel helpfull. the brain love to explain stuff- so if he helps you, he would simply think- you are close to him that's why.
3- make your movement slow when near him, lingering touch, your fingers on your neck or lips (bitting your bottom lips) but make it look natural not forced- while holding an innocent glance towards him. and a smile that isn't limited but a true smile that reach your eyes. silent is a good thing to make tension- when he talks, keep your eyes on him (like you're looking at a prey), your eyes not fully wide ( a relaxed eyes) and your lips a bit apart not too much ( have no reaction just simple " ah- that's interesting" "ok" uh-huh". and if he finish give him a smile with small " thanks- you're pretty good at it" or whatever he told you.
before starting- you gotta look yourself presentable, atleast fix your hair or posture. Make yourself clean and comfortable.
1- i would love to start with a small real compliment: did he do his hair different => compliment, did he wear something nice => compliment,etc. and move on with that small compliment. don't stand there waiting for his reply. move on.
2- ask for favors, not big one but a small easy one, to making him feel helpful. giving him a small favor like " can i have a pencile " " can you hold this for one second?" will make him feel helpfull. the brain love to explain stuff- so if he helps you, he would simply think- you are close to him that's why.
3- make your movement slow when near him, lingering touch, your fingers on your neck or lips (bitting your bottom lips) but make it look natural not forced- while holding an innocent glance towards him. and a smile that isn't limited but a true smile that reach your eyes. silent is a good thing to make tension- when he talks, keep your eyes on him (like you're looking at a prey), your eyes not fully wide ( a relaxed eyes) and your lips a bit apart not too much ( have no reaction just simple " ah- that's interesting" "ok" uh-huh". and if he finish give him a smile with small " thanks- you're pretty good at it" or whatever he told you.
@simple simp
4- love bombing is also a VERY effective when you really wanna get close to him but let's just say it's a bit toxic. some would call it manipulative. but here a small explination and extra!:
- be close, make him laugh, make him smile and let him talk about himself 24/7
- buy him stuff, like his favorite snacks or drink ( buy a cheap necklace, saying it suits him- let him wear it)
- show him your time is limited, make it look like he needs to fight to get your time. ( busy on hobby- friends wanting you)
- mirroring, be subtle- move like how he moves. to feel close bond. make your move that is copying his comfortable, natural.
- after he call you " best friend" remove yourself from his life for some weeks. ( be busy)
If you get closer:
- ruffle his hair a bit, or give small playfull slap or punch ( gentle).
- litsen to his hobby ( if he likes writing story be very and very interested. you don't know how much writer loves it when something is fully into it).
the best way to start talking to him is by noticing something you both have common and ask him if he loved it before making it a long conversation about it ( let him talk).
GOOD LUCK!!! don't take my advices in the heart- i'm also single
4- love bombing is also a VERY effective when you really wanna get close to him but let's just say it's a bit toxic. some would call it manipulative. but here a small explination and extra!:
- be close, make him laugh, make him smile and let him talk about himself 24/7
- buy him stuff, like his favorite snacks or drink ( buy a cheap necklace, saying it suits him- let him wear it)
- show him your time is limited, make it look like he needs to fight to get your time. ( busy on hobby- friends wanting you)
- mirroring, be subtle- move like how he moves. to feel close bond. make your move that is copying his comfortable, natural.
- after he call you " best friend" remove yourself from his life for some weeks. ( be busy)
If you get closer:
- ruffle his hair a bit, or give small playfull slap or punch ( gentle).
- litsen to his hobby ( if he likes writing story be very and very interested. you don't know how much writer loves it when something is fully into it).
the best way to start talking to him is by noticing something you both have common and ask him if he loved it before making it a long conversation about it ( let him talk).
GOOD LUCK!!! don't take my advices in the heart- i'm also single
@simple simp sorry, I wanted to heart it!!!!!
@Sleeping log it's fine (: thanks!