Comment by Lolo on ri0

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@ri0 Bro guys please I get that the blond haired dude is clingy and he's dragging the mc around everywhere without his permission. But the mc reacts 2 very different ways with both characters, on one hand he gets annoyed the guy won't leave him alone but he doesn't yell at him or anything and actually ends up having a nice time and a distraction from whatever trauma the black haired guy WHO is a murderer caused him, meanwhile with the black haired guy he's literally screaming at him and got literally HARASSED and FORCABLY KISSED by him. Plus, the clingy guy actually cares about the blond dude, because someone who has alterior motives usually wouldn't be so worried about a dude or be worried to ask (he literally had thoughts about worrying about going to far by asking about it btw) about the dude who literally makes the mc stress so badly. Like its really sad, I get it that the blond character did emotionally manipulate the mc by making him feel guilty, but like that could've been a misunderstanding. The blond character said he'd gotten over it already, but that doesn't mean when they talked in class he had gotten over it. However I understand how his clingyness could be annoying, but you have to understand the blond has never HARASSED the mc or FORCABLY KISSED HIM, or CAUSES HIM TO FEAR HIM, no the blond makes the mc actually laugh and have fun in life, and even helped him with his wounds, I get that he didn't want to be helped, but sometimes there is also a thing called toxic independance where you refuse help from anyone and believe someone helping you will be seen as something you owe the person or have to pay them back later. I think this blond haired person genuinely might be a big help to help the mc start to open up a bit more for not being afraid to ask for help.

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@Lolo Are you sure you're reading the same manhwa? This blond annoying guy stalked the main character, bothered him, violated his personal boundaries, manipulated him, guilt tripped him, and no matter how you tried to deny it, harassed him, touched him against his will and in the following chapters kissed him without consent. Do you understand that such emotional abuse cannot be called help because it devalues the entire experience of the victims who went through similar things?