Comment by White flower on Back to School - Chapter 12

@White flower  Are you serious? The blonde bas**** also keeps to stalking and harassing Chiwoo even though he told that mother****** to just leave him alone. Also, many here re-read this work and know that the class president is a manipulator and guilt tripper, so stop being hypocritical mother******* who condemn some red flags while romanticizing others

@Ilovegege  in real life if you were constantly being followed, touched, bothered and your requests to be left alone were ignored, you would not want such a “friendship”

@ri0 Bro guys please I get that the blond haired dude is clingy and he's dragging the mc around everywhere without his permission. But the mc reacts 2 very different ways with both characters, on one hand he gets annoyed the guy won't leave him alone but he doesn't yell at him or anything and actually ends up having a nice time and a distraction from whatever trauma the black haired guy WHO is a murderer caused him, meanwhile with the black haired guy he's literally screaming at him and got literally HARASSED and FORCABLY KISSED by him. Plus, the clingy guy actually cares about the blond dude, because someone who has alterior motives usually wouldn't be so worried about a dude or be worried to ask (he literally had thoughts about worrying about going to far by asking about it btw) about the dude who literally makes the mc stress so badly. Like its really sad, I get it that the blond character did emotionally manipulate the mc by making him feel guilty, but like that could've been a misunderstanding. The blond character said he'd gotten over it already, but that doesn't mean when they talked in class he had gotten over it. However I understand how his clingyness could be annoying, but you have to understand the blond has never HARASSED the mc or FORCABLY KISSED HIM, or CAUSES HIM TO FEAR HIM, no the blond makes the mc actually laugh and have fun in life, and even helped him with his wounds, I get that he didn't want to be helped, but sometimes there is also a thing called toxic independance where you refuse help from anyone and believe someone helping you will be seen as something you owe the person or have to pay them back later. I think this blond haired person genuinely might be a big help to help the mc start to open up a bit more for not being afraid to ask for help.

@Lolo Are you sure you're reading the same manhwa? This blond annoying guy stalked the main character, bothered him, violated his personal boundaries, manipulated him, guilt tripped him, and no matter how you tried to deny it, harassed him, touched him against his will and in the following chapters kissed him without consent. Do you understand that such emotional abuse cannot be called help because it devalues the entire experience of the victims who went through similar things?

@Lili you for sure aren't reading the same manhwa lol kyujin didn't do even ⅓ of what the damage jihyun did in chiwoo's life. actually is canon  kyujin helped chiwoo to get his life fixed.

@White flower  I also get the feeling that Chiwoo's trauma came from the hot guy. Hence the panic attacks. 

I wish the author would come up with a character that doesn't violate anyone's personal space because these two (ML and hot guy) have been doing that, with hot guy being worse because he has all the signs of an abusive person.

Children can down vote this comment all they want, I'm just gonna laugh. It means they've read my comments all over this manhwa, and someday they're all going to remember that at one point, they loved red flags. (But I do hope, for their sake, that if they encounter a man like hot dude in person, they'd know how to run the other way.)

@Doc B Lapa (skysenshi) omg you are really just an immature narcissistic individual who likes to call everyone children in order to appear wiser in the eyes of others😂 it’s a pity that you don’t understand what a clown you’re making of yourself lol

@u so stupid  sure. [poco:0] OK. I'm not wise. I just encountered people like that black-haired guy IRL. Some of them are even parents to my (college) students. And some were actual boyfriends of my students. Lots of them around. I'm actually quite surprised that people fall for these guys and then later have to go through so much therapy after all the trauma.