@Rex8786 First of all, this comparison makes no sense because selective mutism belongs to that category of traumas that you can't control because it just happens(Besides, mutism trauma, what harm they doing to anyone?Apart from the person who lives it They don't hurt anyone! On the contrary, this person here has actually harmed someone. This entry means that with their problems, they dragged other people into their mess, okay? On the other hand, the trauma of going in to a toxic relationship Is Voluntary—because he wasn't forced, he went of his own free will and went out with this person, okay? (If he has any trauma, he should go to a psychologist and not make anyone else suffer.)The trauma of not speaking is involuntary; the trauma of going out with someone even when you're feeling bad is voluntary. I mean, it's not like someone blocks all your senses and controls you like a puppet. No, it doesn't work like that. It's something else. First of all, you don't understand , because I tried to understand you. If you actually read my comment carefully, you'd understand and know that I understood you perfectly, you didn't get my comparisons, you didn't get the point, and you keep bringing up things I didn't ask for. I'm telling you I'm upset about this because you defended a person while someone else was suffering. You're defending a person who makes someone else suffer. I don't give a d*mn if they have a trauma, you don't make someone suffer just because you suffered. I mean, do you think it's right that after suffering and suffering, I say fine, I'll make someone else suffer? Yes, because I can, because I suffered A trauma, so I'm authorized to make someone suffer. Yes! Do you think that's right?
The core of everything written lies in suffering, in causing someone else to suffer, and in trying at any cost to defend that person because they have trauma. But that means nothing. It means nothing at all. A person who has trauma and causes someone else to suffer is not someone to be defended. If you have trauma and want my compassion, you behave well, You don't make others suffer; otherwise, this means you don't trully know what suffering is, because suffering is understanding Is also under standing that Is bad and not wanting to make someone else suffer. In that case, you are a hypocrite. And that is all I wanted to say. I would kindly ask you to never write again and to end this conversation here, because we have understood that you and I cannot understand each other. And that's okay; we are all different, and I can understand that. The fact that you do not understand what I say and try in any way to make me look like a bad person, which I am not, you think that people who have trauma have every right to make people who maybe do not have trauma suffer, well, I don't know, maybe you feel called out. So, anyway, have a good day and do not write to me anymore.
