Yall, ik this ain't the right place but I need some advice and this is the only thing left π
So, my gf , likes to never answer me on text for 1 hour max, normal right , however. She stopped saying I love you as much, she stopped hugging me and holding hands with me, she made me the second option, she makes me want to kill myself, and etc. The worst part is probably how my friend caught her talking about how hot this boy was and everything. When said friend reminded her she had a girlfriend ( me ), she brushed it off. Also, to include. We always argue because of her. She makes me the second option, she always puts her best friend as the first option. She never hangs out with me anymore unless I am the first to reach out. Whenever I come by them to talk while they are laughing and everything I just sit down at where they are sitting and they will stop and just look at me in disgust. I've already been dealing with mental health problems, and this Is making it worse and this place is my last straw for advice ( weird ik).
Comment by π³οΈβπ on Lilith 2 - Chapter 25
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Dude, you definitely need to break up with them. It already sounds like you know how unhealthy this relationship. Just know that there will be more people in the future and that you deserve someone who respects you and your relationship. I've also struggled with mental health stuff in the past and it really does help to let go of people that are hurting you. Hope things get better for you.
Also you definitely shouldn't be reading this sh** at your age.
Heyy, I just wanted to say that this doesn't sound healthy at all and you really shouldn't stay longer in such relationship. A relationship is supposed to make you feel safe and loved and this relationship you're having clearly fails at doing that. I guess your girlfriend is probably not interested anymore and is just too much of a coward to say it. Please do not harm yourself and get out of that relationship as soon as possible. If you need someone to talk, add me on snap, it's marie.2728
You should never put anyone or anhthing above your mental health, break up with your girlfriend Because it will only get worse, you need to put your mental health before her. From personal experience I'm saying that you'll only be breaking yourself even more by staying with her, it's not worth it.
You should let it go a relationship like that can become emotionally draining and what she is doing is disrespectful to u and ur relationship it's just not worth the trouble. I hope you are able to move on from this toxicity
This person (GF) doesnΒ΄t seem to be a good person for you. This is not healthy. Please break up with them, they are not worth your precious time. I hope you will live a life withputh this toxic relationship.
I hope you the best of life but please break up. This is toxic.