@Pipi its a political marriage, yes, she was 9yo when married but that doesn't mean that she's forced to share bed or have a wedding night at that age, even in our history european nobles married as kids normally didn't share bed till have 14, 15 or 16 yo, yes, other cultures didn't care even this...
"DO NOT PRAY! If you pray, your hands will close together. You will not be able to fight!" - Gattsu 
