I hate "interventions" like this. It comes off as so patronising and doesn't help anybody. The person with the trauma was the one shaped and changed by it, so don't you think he's already reminded himself a million times to be on guard? A simple, "hey i'm worried about you, please make sure to stay sharp even if he seems like a good guy, and I'll be here if you want to talk" would have sufficed.
I love emotional intimacy, yearners and service tops - if your tastes are similar, you might like some of these: /lists/z8Nx03aD-recommendations! :)
