what are you willing to give up for me, EVERYTHING. Sounds nice doesn't it but Jo doesn't even understand the weight of the word. It's followed up with rough s** where Jo even admits Ian was being self destructive. Called him broken. He fell into Ian's provocation. Now is not the time for s**! Ian was using s** as an escape and we get the the blue eyes blue flame quote yall love so much. I tried copying and pasting the analysis in here but manga buddy won't allow me to post it. It must have triggering words. Since you won't listen to a TJ stan, go ahead and have AI analyze that quote for you and ask if Ian was feeling suicidal and I'm pretty sure Ai will agree with me. Cause it's not romantic as you all seem to think it is. Don't believe me, ask a super computer.
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I forgot the flower store scene. Ian finally noticed a flower shop. He thinks about the 1 Tulip Jo got to decorate his apt. But he doesn't buy the flower. So romantic that Jo has literally never received anything from Ian.
Aunt Bella house where Ian tells Jo he feels better when he looks at him, but the entire time Ian is there he looks hella out of place and uncomfortable.
and the real super duper romantic moment between them was the alley scene where Ian literally runs off leaving Jo in the middle of a crime scene ALONE. His first instinct is to run away instead of protecting Jo.