@Tetiana Seems to me he's coping well enough if he was able to face his ex head-on and draw a line. He doesn't need to speedrun everything. The fact that he was able to deal with a homophobic roommate (Jae - who, bdw, as an adult did all those things so there's no excuse for that) for that long and was able to face his shi*** ex, I'd say Garam is already pretty strong and is doing well. He doesn't need 'help', he needs understanding and patience.
Comment by starrystar on Tetiana
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@starrystar Right, seems like we've exchanged these multiple comments on his traumata in vain: he's not that traumatised if he dealt his ex just fine by himself. Why do you bring his past trauma as an excuse in terms of his behaviour with Jaehyuk then? The latter has undergone his character development, I'd say it's Garam's turn now.
@starrystar "Understanding and patience", my a**... If Jaehyuk had zero understanding, he'd do nothing for Garam to help. And succumbing to "patiently" wait till Garam is ready may take like forever, not taking into account the way Garam chose to act - run away after leaving a note, refusing to take up Jaehyuk's calls and then keep silent for hours. Geez, talk about adjusting to that cr**.
@starrystar Thanks for constant dislikes 😄