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Y'all question (ik I could ask my friends this but they'll definitely have a bias and I need some opinions from people who don't know me, please help🥲🥲),
I'm in a long distance and my bf and I talked every night, he even came to visit me with his family(we're family friends) on valentine's and it was very nice and all, and now that he's back to his city, for the past couple days he keep on saying that he's tired and sleepy or had stuff early next morning and haven't been calling me or just calling for 10 minutes, it's so weird because even if he's busy, he makes sure to keep in touch... Our time zones are also 2 hours apart and it worked before because he's a late sleeper and now that he's fixing his sleep schedule he goes to sleep early, but even when I call him early he just talks for a couple minutes then hangs up. I don't even know what to think at this point
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@Cat bro you need to talk things through with him , don't make it sound like you're complaining or else there may be misunderstanding. Overthinking on your own won't get you anywhere so please Communicate.
@Cat I don't think he is cheating, all you need to do stay is stay in contact even if its for ten minutes, a lot of people automatically thinks he is cheating but that's not necessary real, it could be that he is busy with work or have things going on with his life and doesn't want you to get involved i suppose its best you call him and talk to him use should tell him how you are feeling or else it will hurt the both of you or go and suprise him and visit him, talking is the best option. Long distance relationship biggest problem is that you can't keep in touch with each for a long time but so long you two bond is strong and you love and respect each other you don't have to worry.
@Cat as you know it's impossible tell people.. who's who behind their face and what they think. 
.. but from my perspective.. I will think 2 cause...
1/ he's focusing on his life i think. And when people focus something on their life they ignore everything except their goal. Especially a guy who's didn't achive his dream.
                OR 
2/ he loss intrest in you just like we loss intrest on our old clothes. .. 
.. anyway as you said he's fixing his habit.. i would say 1st cause is more likely the case. 
.. as percentage i would say 60/40 .. 
60 % CHANGE HES FOCUSING IN HIS DREAM AND 40% CHANGE HE'S CHEATING OR LOSE INTEREST IN YOU.
@Entrenal thank you so much, I'll try to talk to him soon🥹🫶
@Moon hye jin hope it's #1🥲🥲 I'm gonna try talk to him soon...🫠
@Cat u need to communicate. It's fishy he is prolly trynna distance himself