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totally agree with you dojae does indeed need someone who has patience and someone who would bother explaining stuff to them and bear with them but its "hard" to find someone who always explains stuff at some point this person will get tired and i totally understand if that person gets tired but if they really wanted to stay with them they WOULD keep bearing with it and explain it. like i too relate to dojae bc i find it hard to read situations and other peoples pov but i can read the room and ppl emotions.

as for eun tak or whatever his name is, he has a point, i understand that he wants to "hide" their relationship bc hes a "sensitive" person and is a "im scared of other peoples opinion" kinda person but its not like he can hide it forever or something plus it doesnt matter aslong he is happy ryt? like ppl need to mind their own bussines, fu** them.  

i hate how they think theyre "solving" and "communicating" while theyre just yelling at each other and expecting each other to understand their pov. like instead of that yall could think of a solution to your da** problems instead of wasting time. they needa learn to listen to each other. smh if i was there i would have solved it for them cuz its frustraing to read and i hate how i relate to their situation😭

 

(HELPEPE NOT ME GIVING ADVICE WHEN I CANT FOLLOW MY OWN😭)

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@vally  yesss this.. I completely agree and I love how you explained too🖤.

I understand what u mean when u say it's hard to find someone who will explain and they'll get tired.. 
in my case I did meet alot of ppl who didn't have patience with me not necessarily partners but friendships..
but luckily I have met a few ppl who take the time to understand me and explain their feelings and communicate with me whenever we have a misunderstanding.

and it's those same ppl who tell me that they are glad they stayed friends and had patience with me because some of them say I understand them the most out of any friend and it's true cause see like ppl like me are often misunderstood but sometimes we just need someone to listen and have patience and we are genuinely ppl who try to be there for our friends and whatnot

sending hugs to u since you relate to their situation as well cause I know communication could be hard depending on the persons involved.
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