@Sapphire Furuse and that's fine, my comment wasn't to say you're a liar or anything, people have different experiences and no two people react the same
it's just implying that it shouldn't hurt could set people up for failure. if they expect it to be completely smooth sailing on their first time and feel even a slight uncomfortable feeling they won't be prepared and might tense up, hurting themselves. I suppose the besy way to word that is to say your first time would probably be uncomfortable, but shouldn't hurt a lot, if at all.
it's just implying that it shouldn't hurt could set people up for failure. if they expect it to be completely smooth sailing on their first time and feel even a slight uncomfortable feeling they won't be prepared and might tense up, hurting themselves. I suppose the besy way to word that is to say your first time would probably be uncomfortable, but shouldn't hurt a lot, if at all.
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I'm straight, I read yaoi for the plot