Comment by wren on Skibidi

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·1 year ago
Ch. 39
the point of all this in the first place was to say that, while more could've been done to show the results of what such persistent sexual assault can do to someone, this isn't THAT farfetched, because they could've just pretended everything was okay and that nothing even happened. it's an incredibly slow burn for a reason. and you don't get to decide whether or not the character or another reader forgives taka, because it's from THEIR pov as the character/reader. that's the point i'm making. both of us are survivors, and my perspective on this is different.
and please, don't ever in your fuc**** life assume that someone hasn't experienced ra** just because they didn't tell you. "listening to you bit**** who clearly haven't experienced any sort of ra**"....that's so godawfully disrespectful, and you should be ashamed of that. i've spent day after day for over 10 g*dd*mn years trying to make sense of what happened to me, trying to understand why i feel so guilty about loving cnc, trying to understand why i have fantasies of ra** happening to me, trying to figure out of the secret of that event happening to me was a real, fuzzy memory or just a lie. i've cried about it because i didn't understand, hated myself for a reason i didn't understand, and felt disgusted with myself for becoming so hypersexual so young because of it. don't you dare tell me i never experienced any sort of ra**.

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·1 year ago
@wren okay i do agree what i said was out of pocket but at the time i was pis*** by what you said bc of the way you worded it. and i apologize for assuming that. in my point of view it was obvious that the manga was downplaying the ra** for the purpose of the couple being together and not taking the fallout as serious bc the ra**  mc experienced was solely fetishistic and not at all meant to be devolved into. yes there are some realistic moments in the slow burn, but i hope we all can agree a rapist and victim shouldnt be in a relationship no matter if the victim has ptsd or not. its an extremely unhealthy dynamic, even if rapist apologized or handed over power to the victim. the reason why i dont like this manga and think its unrealistic is bc of how they paired rapist and victim together, showing them as a happy couple which further proves the point that the ra** in this manga wasnt took as seriously and developed into a serious victim x abuser relationship. when in actuality it would be far more toxic and not as fluffy. this is why i think this manga is VERY unrealistic and i mean VERRYYY unrealistic. and it is very rare for SA victims to not experience ptsd as it is a major factor in sa cases. what im trying to say here is that they couldve fleshed out mc not having ptsd far more and not have it as unrealistic as it is. in these newer chapters its like mc completely forgot about what ml did to him when even in the case of an sa victim not having ptsd would be false. i want to say agaim that im truly sorry for assuming things! that was completely unnecessary and said in the heat the moment! i am truly sorry for you and hope you heal from that to one sa victim to another
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