@Sayless I think you've got it wrong. Imagine if your family members paid the price because they thought you were in dire straits, but yet they loved and cared for you nonetheless. Would you give your all and do everything in your power to rectify that and protect them? Don't deny that you would if you cared for them, appreciated all they did throughout your life, and gave them all you had. Your inner self will tell you that you would help them, because you forget that no one is perfect. As a result, she made a mistake, but at what was the cost and what motivated her decision? In the case of loss and love, the answer is simple.