@EF i i disagree. Being poor can be very traumatic. I don't remember seeing Dan get everything he needed, if their house is anything to go by, they were extremely poor. Not having parents is extremely traumatic too, no matter how nice your grandma is. He also got sexually harassed in school. And trauma is not a competition. People react to the same thing differently. The same thing could be nothing for one person but traumatise someone else for life.