Comment by NoOne438179 on Luna Moon

@Luna Moon girl, don't apologize for sharing! Everybody needs to talk to someone about their problems, and clearly you can't talk to your parents about this right now (which is entirely their fault btw and it isn't supposed to be like that). You not being able to talk to and trust the adults around you isn't a healthy environment and I'm so sorry for you for not being able to confide in people around you. You having to break up with your gf and being monitored like that isn't ok at all. Yes, parents are supposed to periodically check their childrens phones to ensure their safety(dunno if you're at an age where that'd apply), emphasis on safety btw, but monitoring who they talk to exceeds that. It is nice tho that your school tries to check on students via those surveys. Not telling the parents is a must tho. Imagine a child getting physically abused at home by their drunk parent and the school just calling home and telling said parent that their child "snitched" on them. I don't even want to imagine what might happen to them. I hope they talk to you kids alone before talking to the parents. Did ypu insicate in the survey that you do self harm or plan on foing something like it? If not, I'd lay low and wait in case they don't contact your parents at all. If yes, I advise that you be faster and talk to your counsellor before they have a chsnce to talk to your parents. Explain that you do not want them to be contacted as they might not take it well. Stay strong🫶 One day, once you're indrpendent, this will all be over and you don't have to hide like this anymore