@Shadow laws the message of the series goes entirely over your head if you wonder in with a victim mentality. That's why I said leave. Bit of a dramatic misread.
And victim is an accurate descriptor, regardless of how you feel about it. For some reason, you think women are the reason for their own discomfort when there are multiple phrases made by men to describe sexual experiences not in women's favour. There is a constant disregard for women's comfort/safety that forbids women from expressing personal interest in a sexual setting, especially when it doesn't align with men's pornographic desires. So no, it's not "she should just talk about it, men are simple creatures".
And victim is an accurate descriptor, regardless of how you feel about it. For some reason, you think women are the reason for their own discomfort when there are multiple phrases made by men to describe sexual experiences not in women's favour. There is a constant disregard for women's comfort/safety that forbids women from expressing personal interest in a sexual setting, especially when it doesn't align with men's pornographic desires. So no, it's not "she should just talk about it, men are simple creatures".
Himefujo at your service