Comment by Roadkillover on Random Discussions

@Roadkillover trusting people is extremely hard. That's something I have first hand experience with. None of my friends know about the situation I'm in because I don't want people's pitiful gazes and also I'm afraid of them spreading and using it against me. I feel you. I am sorry that somebody close to you betrayed your trust. It hurts a lot. I hope that one day you find somebody worthy of your trust and somebody who will be there for you 💜💜💜

@mars✨   you are the most kind and understanding person who as ever talked to me. It feels like someone has finally understood me thank you .

@Roadkillover I hope I helped a little bit. You can always express your worries here💜💜💜

@Roadkillover Such cute "worries" compared to what real life can throw at you.

What about being in kindergaarten, then you have a friend there and the next day you just learn they've died a dumb death (for instance from falling out the windows just to bodily wave "hello" to a schoolmate you disliked) ? Yeah that happened to me a long long time ago. I've awkwardly looked at the world since such as well many other things that happened to me or others.

Don't mind me if that post don't sit with your appeal to pity. Just trying to lift your mood by reminding you that Life is Life. Sometimes you just need to refrain from searching a reason to everything, nor any reason to trust or distrust people.

@Ryip bro your a real one like fr even if you called me a geek in your last comment.

@Roadkillover Sorry if you didn't like being called a geek (?).

I might be blunt -- because in my country/culture, it's almost a given to cut to the chase (when someone asks advice, be blunt rather than playing "kind" at the price of lying/mislead). Though over Internet, I also came across weird things such as asking "advice" only to beg for praises or void "kindness". Too shallow for me to get why. It's sometimes difficult to guess or answer what are the real expectations.