@Born to slay It’s completely normal to be attracted to older men, especially at 19. You might be drawn to their maturity, confidence, emotional depth, or that strict, masculine energy that younger guys often don’t have yet. That dream abt ur dads friend who gives off those "manly" Henry Cavill vibes is just your brain processing those attractions in a safe, symbolic way. It doesn’t mean you actually want something to happen, especially if he’s off-limits like a zaddy or a friend’s parent. Crushes like this can feel intense and confusing, but as long as you respect boundaries in real life, there’s nothing wrong with your feelings. You're just learning what kind of energy attracts you, and that’s totally okay.
or u have zaddy issues
or u have zaddy issues
