@Kiki
I never asked you to pick a "side" as in picking a gender to defend, I asked you to pick a position so we could discuss your ideas instead of me being the only one making a point and establishing my positions and then being the only one required to defend them. Currently, your position is simply one of a critic, sitting in the audience and complaining rather than offering something of a substantial competing value. If your position is simply that you have no position but want to throw peanuts, then I can just ignore replying to you since it's not really helpful for either of us. Is that fair?