@Derrie is it that you have not read the mc backstory cause all of us saw that she has trauma from her two marriages with pregnancy and child birth since none of her children survive, she probably suffers from some kind of psychological backlash and she doesn't care about her self, so you want that kind of person to have a child AGAIN!!! and trying to help her overcome her problems first before getting pregnant is SHADY!! Isn't it much of a stretch

