@Shadow laws ofc i think the women in these settings are the victims? When did I suggest they wouldn't be? I pointed out the absurdity in you justifications because you're blaming the VICTIM of someone else's incompetence. And an example of sexual abuse that's trending is "bull riding". I think the very fact you consider this concept nonsensical is proof that you believe that your own personal experiences with sexuality overrides the discrimination women actively face during sexual intimacy, ofc, along with your latter statements.
@Denjizloved jesus , it was a joke made by a woman in a podcast, and how many guys do u think are actually doing it ?? Do u think we are nuts ? A simple innocent touch can be considered sezual assault now a days , and u think men are going around bull riding, while woman tries to get away ...... Stop believing everything they say , stop living in social media........ Any other example , u might have experienced yourself? Not heard while scrolling on social media?
And my initial comment was about communication issue not about forced or unwanted s** . if a woman has not told me beforehand about what she likes or not like during s** , then all i can do is try something that i think she might like , and if she doesn't like that and decides to keeps quiet about how she is not comfortable with what i am doing, how is it my fault ?? And how is she the victim?? This is absurdity.....