@WhoiusShe you make good points and I do agree that the only part of her perspective I do understand, especially as a woman, is having all your achievements disregarded because they will be seen through a lens of “she got there because of him.”
I also remember this is a manhwa and if they communicate properly, we wouldn’t have a story. Haha because I just want to scream to talk to him. She’s not being selfless by making his decision for him because she knows he’d throw everything away for her and therefore she’s protecting him by not bringing him down with her. That’s romantic and good, but he deserves the agency to make that decision for himself. It’s definitely complicated and you’ve given me a lot of thought though.
I did drop it and now I’m like, maybe I shouldn’t have been so hasty…