@lurker regardless of what you're saying it's still ra** and that's a fact you don't have have to justify it or minimize the impact. It's sexual coercion; this means using power, threats, or manipulation to pressure someone into sexual activity they don't consent to, often by leveraging something they might lose if they don't comply. @male fujoshi is right and so is their user name fudanshi or male fujoshi means the same thing
Read it properly again with comprehension