Comment by Yanyi on Random commenter

Comment on ReplyRandom commenter
@Random commenter amen and being honest I do have the feeling of it being scary, you know, starting a job, but instead I feel so eager about it, sadly I'll lose 2 days of training because I have 2 very important test that I cannot afford to leave undone (aka genetics and anatomy 1) I really do hope i have a supportive relationship with my boss and colleagues 😄

And about the guy it's just that firstly everything was building as a normal friendship he's kind of shy but still socialize enough, we both share my thing in common (like our love for cars and food lol) and idk I've been recieveing mixed signal, when we talk in person or by text we do talk a lot and joke a lot too, (I'll admit have had a crush on him for 2 years (since de begging of my 2nd year of college and just a month ago we started talking, he hasn't been the type to search for me yk he's always and his friend group bit sometimes he takes time to joke a little with me and go back to his group, today was the first day he actually came searching for me and we've practically spent every night talking and laughing nonstop but at the same time I'm kinda reluctant because he has the reputation to be promiscuous, I know people can change but even he says he might have a child somewhere and uhm... that makes me not want to try things out since idk how things might turn in that topic but he is a pretty rational and intelligent person, I like studying with him

Spoiler!
Presidential Secretary of No Pineapple Pizza Cult
Part of Big tittle Cult
SL Architect can have my a** and I'll be happy with it
Name given by TheConstellationLordOfTwilight

1 Reply

@Yanyi

 

someone who sleeps around that he may have a kid or two (if your gut says he's serious about that) can't be shy, he could be playing a certain persona to lull you into sleeping with him. It's possible he could be a charmer not in a relationship and a monster/beast in a relationship (though this is an extreme). Just be cautious and listent to your instincts. Sometimes, instincts can be revelations from the Father

Re: caring for strangers, you can think of your time here as pratice. Just as I tried to sincerely help, be patient, ask the Lord to provide you with wisdom, direction and guidance and while it won't be overnight, sooner or later as long as you trust the Lord is guiding you, you will be as adept (maybe more so). When I was your age, I was very socially awkward, now people think I'm an extrovert even though I'm an introvert

I'll keep you in prayer on your journey. Keep in mind, you can also seek out mentorship on various matters, many adults are happy to help students who are sincere and serious. Your coworkers and colleagues could be a great start

About me, it's not that I'm strong, but the Lord equips me with what I need (I did ask for a job and he provided) to serve others and this job lets me serve despite the fact I should be sleep deprived and ocassionally hungry since I don't always have time to eat before departing. Thankfully its roughly every other week and once I find something more permanent, I can reduce the times I work from every other week to maybe once a month. Nothing's official yet, we have our first actual date this Friday so if you don't mind praying for me, I appreciate it. I don't have to get at 1am everytime, the next time will be in about 2 weeks and it's only 2 days