putting a hold on whether you blame gongchan or blondie, youngmin literally lied and caused gongchan to hallucinate just to one up blondie thats so fuc*** up especially because he knows how afraid gongchan is of these things like clearly he didnt see anything until youngmin's vivid description which caused him to imagine it and honestly blondie isnt that bad but all yall riding youngmin's di** so hard need to calm down and look at how he is acting rn
Comment by LemonSquare on The Spooky Love Tale of Gongchan Seol - Chapter 52 : the ghost before us
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@LemonSquare welp , it s not like he had to see them for years an years all alone bc of gchang s story , so ....
@LemonSquare oh wow
@LemonSquare THIS. Finally someone gets it.
1. I do get younmin wanted to clarify about seeing ghosts and assert their relationship- but can we justify his actions in literally creating fear and terror in his loved one to do so? NO.
2. Yes blondie lied, used tricks to get close to gongchan, and his way of expression of his affections and interest is a bit questionable as seen with youngmin- those actions cannot be justified. BUT, is it a crime to love someone? Be interested in someone? Can you stop yourself from crushing on someone? Is it a crime? No. Specially here, as the blondie have no idea of younmin's and gongchan's relationship, and condemning blondie for liking gongchan is just cruel.
3. Our gongchan is a bit gullible, and a bit of an adorable idiot. Should he be held liable for not clarifying their relationship, being an idiot and not seeing a person making moves on him and still behaving in a manner that could be misleading? Probably, may be... probably.
But we also cannot ignore the fact that he genuinely believed and treated blondie as a friend. Hanging out at a friend's place, hugging them, being close to them is okay-
and anyone who says otherwise needs to get into healthy human relationship 101 class to brush up basics on how healthy romantic partnership is not based on possession, obsession and isolation of their partners from all other human relationships other than their significant other and not objectifying all beings around them (to the extent of believing that everyone around them to be a romantic interest- you need affection, attention and you should be protected if you think so, I hope you get to know the feelings of love and feelings of being truly cherished)
BUT WELL. OUR GONGCHAN IS AN IDIOT AND JUST DUMB NOT TO SEE BEYOND BLONDIE'S KISSES AND MOVES *sigh* being that dumb does not justify his actions.
1. I do get younmin wanted to clarify about seeing ghosts and assert their relationship- but can we justify his actions in literally creating fear and terror in his loved one to do so? NO.
2. Yes blondie lied, used tricks to get close to gongchan, and his way of expression of his affections and interest is a bit questionable as seen with youngmin- those actions cannot be justified. BUT, is it a crime to love someone? Be interested in someone? Can you stop yourself from crushing on someone? Is it a crime? No. Specially here, as the blondie have no idea of younmin's and gongchan's relationship, and condemning blondie for liking gongchan is just cruel.
3. Our gongchan is a bit gullible, and a bit of an adorable idiot. Should he be held liable for not clarifying their relationship, being an idiot and not seeing a person making moves on him and still behaving in a manner that could be misleading? Probably, may be... probably.
But we also cannot ignore the fact that he genuinely believed and treated blondie as a friend. Hanging out at a friend's place, hugging them, being close to them is okay-
and anyone who says otherwise needs to get into healthy human relationship 101 class to brush up basics on how healthy romantic partnership is not based on possession, obsession and isolation of their partners from all other human relationships other than their significant other and not objectifying all beings around them (to the extent of believing that everyone around them to be a romantic interest- you need affection, attention and you should be protected if you think so, I hope you get to know the feelings of love and feelings of being truly cherished)
BUT WELL. OUR GONGCHAN IS AN IDIOT AND JUST DUMB NOT TO SEE BEYOND BLONDIE'S KISSES AND MOVES *sigh* being that dumb does not justify his actions.
@Mystery gurl , dunno abb ya , but love is love ,in many forms ,and in my opinion nobody expresed it on its best, so better not argure with it and that s it .