@LemonSquare THIS. Finally someone gets it.
1. I do get younmin wanted to clarify about seeing ghosts and assert their relationship- but can we justify his actions in literally creating fear and terror in his loved one to do so? NO.
2. Yes blondie lied, used tricks to get close to gongchan, and his way of expression of his affections and interest is a bit questionable as seen with youngmin- those actions cannot be justified. BUT, is it a crime to love someone? Be interested in someone? Can you stop yourself from crushing on someone? Is it a crime? No. Specially here, as the blondie have no idea of younmin's and gongchan's relationship, and condemning blondie for liking gongchan is just cruel.
3. Our gongchan is a bit gullible, and a bit of an adorable idiot. Should he be held liable for not clarifying their relationship, being an idiot and not seeing a person making moves on him and still behaving in a manner that could be misleading? Probably, may be... probably.
But we also cannot ignore the fact that he genuinely believed and treated blondie as a friend. Hanging out at a friend's place, hugging them, being close to them is okay-
and anyone who says otherwise needs to get into healthy human relationship 101 class to brush up basics on how healthy romantic partnership is not based on possession, obsession and isolation of their partners from all other human relationships other than their significant other and not objectifying all beings around them (to the extent of believing that everyone around them to be a romantic interest- you need affection, attention and you should be protected if you think so, I hope you get to know the feelings of love and feelings of being truly cherished)
BUT WELL. OUR GONGCHAN IS AN IDIOT AND JUST DUMB NOT TO SEE BEYOND BLONDIE'S KISSES AND MOVES *sigh* being that dumb does not justify his actions.
1. I do get younmin wanted to clarify about seeing ghosts and assert their relationship- but can we justify his actions in literally creating fear and terror in his loved one to do so? NO.
2. Yes blondie lied, used tricks to get close to gongchan, and his way of expression of his affections and interest is a bit questionable as seen with youngmin- those actions cannot be justified. BUT, is it a crime to love someone? Be interested in someone? Can you stop yourself from crushing on someone? Is it a crime? No. Specially here, as the blondie have no idea of younmin's and gongchan's relationship, and condemning blondie for liking gongchan is just cruel.
3. Our gongchan is a bit gullible, and a bit of an adorable idiot. Should he be held liable for not clarifying their relationship, being an idiot and not seeing a person making moves on him and still behaving in a manner that could be misleading? Probably, may be... probably.
But we also cannot ignore the fact that he genuinely believed and treated blondie as a friend. Hanging out at a friend's place, hugging them, being close to them is okay-
and anyone who says otherwise needs to get into healthy human relationship 101 class to brush up basics on how healthy romantic partnership is not based on possession, obsession and isolation of their partners from all other human relationships other than their significant other and not objectifying all beings around them (to the extent of believing that everyone around them to be a romantic interest- you need affection, attention and you should be protected if you think so, I hope you get to know the feelings of love and feelings of being truly cherished)
BUT WELL. OUR GONGCHAN IS AN IDIOT AND JUST DUMB NOT TO SEE BEYOND BLONDIE'S KISSES AND MOVES *sigh* being that dumb does not justify his actions.
