i said what i said. the reason why half of yall defend her is because you're just like her. a fetishier. and the other half is because you only indulge in bl media and don't know any better. let me tell you that gay relationships are not dolls waiting to be accessorised. straight women ESPECIALLY shouldn't even be trying to reason their argument and saying that she was just "trying" to help. trying to help MY A**. you think her nerdy a** actually knows about relationships? she shouldn't even be trying, her only fuc*** sources are of lil books that is probably filled to the brim with fetishisation and stereotypes of gay relationships ffs. & ngl defending her actions is only making yall look guiltier and guiltier every fuc*** second lmaoo. i beg of yall 2 go read straight manhwa since that's what u literally are. STRAIGHT. don't forget that. or simply stop talking absolute sh** about what u THINK u know. it's embarrassing
Comment by 结衣. on Here U Are - Vol.1 Chapter 83
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Relationships like these aren't some dolls to play with, pair and fantasized about. Hck, I can't even explain properly rn. It's just that, my point is, we have no right to meddle into their business, relationships are so fragile, one wrong move and it'll all fall out. I really get that she was trying to be the “matchmaker” but it isn't helping that she'll do everything she wants just to get them together like how some romance books were written. Hinting? No, it's just adding fuel to the fire. Helping? It is, but it was on the form of pushing her fantasies towards them. Meddling too much could ruin everything y'know? And I just couldn't stand it. I had said what I said. Letting stuffs fall into their right places and going with the flow of life are a better option. I mean no harm, and I am stating what I believe. I won't defend her, end of conversation.
The thing is would it have been okay if this was a gay character helping out another one? No! Because when you meddle in others relationship it just creates complications. YOU are just hating her for being a shipper, but it is same as girls helping each other out. She isn't forcing them to be a certain way or play out HER fantasies, she just wants to help him. I have done that before for my straight friends, would that make me a fetishist? I think you're reading way too much into it, she just saw a romance and like literally any person who is a romantic, she wants to help.