I am Rosetta when it comes to my feelings about Maxi. She's fxckxng annoying and so easy to accept her father's abuse. There is no reason why Maxi should have come back considering how terrible her father treated her. She had an out and she squandered it!!! Argh!!!
Comment by Ilovemanhwaslikethat on Under The Oak Tree - Chapter 145
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@Ilovemanhwaslikethat It's not her fault she grew up in a an abusive household!! When you grow up in such an environment, decision taking skills are out the fuc**** door! She never knew anything besides that abuse and the only way out is to marry and keep that husband by producing an heir. Just because she had a lovely time with her husband and some freedom doesn't mean she HEALED from years of crazy sh**! Trauma is for life sometimes.
@Damon'sWh*re<3 I think my issue is more that she had a place to stay, a place shes been staying. Father or not, he doesnt outrank Agnes, and in this type of setting women post-marriage belong to their husbands more than their fathers, meaning he has no actual authority to dismiss the knights. I'm upset she didnt even try to stay, but Im more upset that Agnes and the knights aren't pushing back beyond asking her a singular question.
@BlueBay I think the main problem is that Maxi didn't say her goodbyes properly with Riftan. She didn't understand why he was so upset with her, so she assumed it's because she wouldn't be able to give him an heir.
Also, when you are abused for years, and treated like trash, you believe you ARE trash. She didn't think Riftan would want her back after losing her child. Honestly, she doesn't even understand why Riftan would love her back. She still lacks confidence and doesn't love herself to believe she can be loved back. She believes she lost her right as a wife because this is all she is good for.
Her dad brainwashed her well and this takes years to heal.
Also, when you are abused for years, and treated like trash, you believe you ARE trash. She didn't think Riftan would want her back after losing her child. Honestly, she doesn't even understand why Riftan would love her back. She still lacks confidence and doesn't love herself to believe she can be loved back. She believes she lost her right as a wife because this is all she is good for.
Her dad brainwashed her well and this takes years to heal.
@BlueBay I completely agree with you on this point
@Damon'sWh*re<3 my issue is not that she grew up in an abusive household. That wasn't her choice. My problem is that she went back! With all the people who could support her and be there for her, she chose to go back to her abusive father. She didn't trust Riftan enough to stay where he had told her to stay. She made Riftan look like he would tell her to go back to her father when he has shown nothing but utter devotion to her. Riftan literally worships the ground Max walks on and her first instinct, to this day, is that that man won't love her even after the miscarriage. She did herself dirty and she did Riftan dirty to.
I would never, and I don't know why you assumed it, blame the victim of domestic abuse. I hate that she went back to her father. I don't understand why she did it when she had an out. But I don't blame her for her abuse. Never.
I would never, and I don't know why you assumed it, blame the victim of domestic abuse. I hate that she went back to her father. I don't understand why she did it when she had an out. But I don't blame her for her abuse. Never.
@Ilovemanhwaslikethat Yes I completely agree with you! She's is so insecure that even when the whole castle praises her and showers her with love she thinks she doesn't deserve it and it's not going to last. Me too I wish she would be as brave as she was in the battle and escale that prison!
@Ilovemanhwaslikethat U don't know How "abuse" work....