Comment by Damon'sWh*re<3 on Ilovemanhwaslikethat

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@Ilovemanhwaslikethat It's not her fault she grew up in a an abusive household!! When you grow up in such an environment, decision taking skills are out the fuc**** door! She never knew anything besides that abuse and the only way out is to marry and keep that husband by producing an heir. Just because she had a lovely time with her husband and some freedom doesn't mean she HEALED from years of crazy sh**! Trauma is for life sometimes.
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@Damon'sWh*re<3 I think my issue is more that she had a place to stay, a place shes been staying. Father or not, he doesnt outrank Agnes, and in this type of setting women post-marriage belong to their husbands more than their fathers, meaning he has no actual authority to dismiss the knights. I'm upset she didnt even try to stay, but Im more upset that Agnes and the knights aren't pushing back beyond asking her a singular question.
@Damon'sWh*re<3 my issue is not that she grew up in an abusive household. That wasn't her choice. My problem is that she went back! With all the people who could support her and be there for her, she chose to go back to her abusive father. She didn't trust Riftan enough to stay where he had told her to stay. She made Riftan look like he would tell her to go back to her father when he has shown nothing but utter devotion to her. Riftan literally worships the ground Max walks on and her first instinct, to this day, is that that man won't love her even after the miscarriage. She did herself dirty and she did Riftan dirty to.

I would never, and I don't know why you assumed it, blame the victim of domestic abuse. I hate that she went back to her father. I don't understand why she did it when she had an out. But I don't blame her for her abuse. Never.